Brush Up on Those Vows
This situation parallels those Reddit threads where individuals engage in discussions to pinpoint responsibility. In this case, each party involved plays a role in the issue. The OP's husband may find it beneficial to revisit the 'what's mine is yours' aspect of their marriage vows.
Conversely, the OP should place a higher emphasis on fostering open communication instead of seeking revenge. As a result, it becomes apparent that their relationship is confronted with many challenges that demand attention for its growth and resilience.
