You Load the Dishwasher Poorly
Speaking of where things live, the dishwasher has specific quadrants for different types of dishes. Any efficient person knows how to pack a dishwasher well and fill it to the brim while ensuring everything comes out clean.
Efficient women know how to do this, that is. Men can't be trusted to ensure every inch of space is used up, so it comes down to the woman they live with to take over the job. Some will even rearrange the dishwasher after someone else loads it.
