#45: Numbers Only
Confidence is a valuable trait, but it's not always easy to achieve. It's natural to feel insecure when we're faced with new situations, especially when it comes to relationships. However, we should not allow our insecurities to control our lives and relationships. In this confession, the guy is struggling with insecurity in his new relationship because his girlfriend has had more sexual partners than he has in the past. He's constantly comparing himself to her past partners, even though she's reassured him that they don't matter.
It's essential for him to take her at her word and focus on building a healthy, trusting relationship with her. Dwelling on the past or comparing himself to others will only lead to self-doubt and erode his self-confidence. Instead, he should recognize that everyone has a different past, and what matters most is the present and future they share together. By prioritizing the quality of their relationship over the quantity of her past partners, he can build a stronger foundation of trust and intimacy with her. Ultimately, his confidence will grow as he realizes that he is valued and loved for who he is, rather than his past experiences or comparisons to others.
