#30: First Date and Red Flags

During a first date, many potential warning signs can arise. For instance, when your date admits to having no money and asks to borrow a small amount, that's a red flag. When your return from a convenience store with a scratch-off lottery ticket, that's another warning sign. So much went wrong even before I had a chance to suggest going to a strip club.

It begs the question of how she even decided to go on a date with him. Did he seem perfectly normal before this evening? Indeed, she must have had some prior interaction with him. While we're not blaming her, it's worth considering why she chose to go out with him in the first place.

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