1. The majority of housework fights aren't actually about the housework.
Last but not least, most of these domestic behaviors and arguments that lead to divorce have nothing to do with cleaning. It's about the marriage's power struggle and lack of respect. In the end, if it means doing something for the one you love, a guy who likes a woman will swallow his pride and manhood. Please take a peek at the fathers who are willing to attend their daughter's tea party. Do you think they like doing girlie things? Not at all. Their daughter, on the other hand, does. It is the only thing that matters. So, why can't you show your lover the same love and respect?
It's tough for them to be on the same page if one spouse can't relate to the other's emotions. It's a problem when one person believes the other is crazy for wanting something clean. It's a problem when one person feels insulted by the other for producing a mess. It's truly about so much more than housework at the end of the day. So when your partner brings up a concern, please don't dismiss it as nitpicking. If you want to save your marriage, pay attention to them and consider counseling.
