Separating everything into "His" and "Hers" categories
Is it really appropriate to split things up 50-50 all the time? Credit: Shutterstock

6. "His" and "Hers" categories

When you marry, you're meant to split your assets 50/50. It should contain not only your possessions but also necessities such as food. If you don't share well, this can be a significant issue that leads to hate. On the one hand, you should not lose sight of who you are as a person. It's beautiful for you to maintain some boundaries. Getting married, on the other hand, is all about coming together. Otherwise, why become legally married in the first place?

On the one hand, you should not lose sight of who you are as a person. It's lovely for you to maintain some boundaries. Getting married, on the other hand, is all about coming together. Otherwise, why become legally married in the first place?

If your partner is unwilling to share information with you, this is a sign that the relationship may end in divorce. I'll never forget a famous scene from The Joy Luck Club in which a married pair worked and remained independent. They also agreed to share the proceeds 50/50 and purchase the items they desire for themselves. If the woman ate some of her husband's ice cream, she was required to reimburse him for her consumed quantity. It finally dawned on her that this was dangerous. You give and take equally in a loving relationship without keeping track.

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