Movies vs. Real Life
Doing a long-distance relationship is extremely difficult. Even with video chats and unlimited messages, it's never the same. Movies make it even harder with their rose-colored glasses approach and false advertising of the long-distance relationship lifestyle. It is a painful, straining, dreadful experience.
So, it's not enough to just decide to pick up your suitcase and passport and go. Sometimes, there are other things you need to take care of a visa, such as applying for leave from work, booking tickets, spending lots of money, etc.
